Read Deeply. Reset Intentionally. Connect Meaningfully.
Books are the spark. Growth is the practice.
You've read the books. Listened to the podcasts. Filled pages of your journal on your own.
You thought, I want to live like this.
Books Light the Fire is here for what comes next.
Join a community of women in New York City who gather around non-fiction books that spark real conversations and the aha moments that change you.
Growth is a practice
Is this
you?
Our Community
Reading the book is only the beginning.
The real growth happens in ordinary moments— created through the small choices we make every day.
Because living an intentional life isn't just about what you know. It's about creating an environment that helps you live it.
Women in their 40s and beyond who are stepping into the life they want, with clarity. Women in their 30s who want to be intentional are welcome too.
Whether you crave deeper conversation, are navigating a new chapter, or looking for a community that grows with you, we are here to cultivate a nurturing space to inspire and support you.
We are a community of women from all walks of life, coming together for personal growth and genuine friendships. We believe in spending time offline and taking care of ourselves well.
We value: curious minds,
authentic connections,
intentional growth, progress over perfection and a judgment-free space.
Diana Chen, Founder & Designer
I started Books Light the Fire because my own journey of personal growth began after the end of a long-term relationship.
Reading gave me clarity—but it was talking about those ideas with other women that helped me actually live them. That's why this community exists.
Joining Our Journey
Each year, we read six personal development books—voted on by our community—that spark meaningful conversations around mindset, purpose, habits, relationships, and well-being. Together, we turn those insights into reflection and intentional action.
Read & Reset Ritual
Our signature experience — Sunday gatherings built around books that challenge, inspire, and expand the way we think. Surround yourself with a welcoming community of genuinely curious women for conversations that connect ideas to real life.
Includes:
✓ Guided discussion · Writing exercises · Creative activity
✓ Coffee, tea & light refreshments (if in-person)
$28 per ritual
Sample Reading List
Books are announced one month in advance, and tickets go on sale the following week.
